Celebrating Mom
SPECIAL NOTE: My Mom, Shirley Ann Citrowske passed into Eternity on July 1, 2020. She was 87 years young, and so ready for this part of Her Journey. In faith, we will see each other again.
If you would like to donate to Heliotrope for Hospice in her memory and celebration of life, please use the PayPal Donate link on this page. If you prefer not to use this online transaction, you can send a check to:
Heliotrope for Hospice, c/o Diane Citrowske, Founder/ Director, 2750 Wheatstone Street, #148, San Diego CA 92111. A tax deductible receipt will follow (email thru PayPal, or from me if you send a check)
Thank you for your love and support at this time.
With gratitude,
Diane
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ORIGINAL POST: 3/26/2013
This week is a pretty special week. This week is for celebrating in a huge way! This week is my mom’s 80th birthday!! I know it’s bad etiquette to tell someone’s age, but I think when you live to be 80, we should be shouting from the roof tops, right Mom?!
(Mom and me picking fresh flowers from her garden and wild flowers about the neighborhood in Golden, Colorado. Mid 1980)
This is a woman who is amazing. Every time my father said “why don’t we move here, or there?”, she was ready to go. Our family moved every 2 to 4 years when I was growing up, and when all the kids were “gone from the nest”, my folks kept on moving. Even when he had passed, she traveled to Paris with a friend, and hiked part of the Appalachian Trail with my sister!
My dad’s wanderlust from Minnesota took him so many different places. In peace time service, he proposed to my mom, and she flew to Germany to become his bride. The adventures never stopped. Texas, North Dakota, South Dakota, Arizona, Saudi Arabia, Colorado, Mexico, to the far reaches of Alaska where they really could see Russia from their front window (Little Diomede Island)! Their relationship was a whirlwind of life.
(Mom, hiking the Appalachian Trail, approx. 2002)
I grew up resilient, and I owe that to my Mom. She managed to make a home for us, no matter where we ended up. About every 4 years I get a weird sense to make a major change in my life! It might not be moving to a different state or country, but there is a wanderlust in my soul, even now. A farm girl from a small town in Minnesota, my mom canoed and camped the Boundary Waters near the Canadian border. She was not content to stay put. She got a degree in teaching, so she could always be self sufficient. I used to tell her, “You create miracles in your classroom”, teaching six year old children the skills of language- reading and writing; math and critical thinking; good manners and social skills. In one year, she transformed their lives! From her life of teaching, her students loved to learn.
I could write a lot about my mom. But I just want to share with you that Heliotrope for Hospice is a personal journey for me, inspired by my mom, Shirley. It is a promise kept each week, to the people who would receive flowers. It is persistence and faith that make it happen… it is a love for flowers so deep that it must be shared. These are values that my mom instilled in me. So I want to wish her the best 80th birthday! and let her know, I thank her for the support and love over the years. For all the life lessons, thank you, Mom…
(Mom at Chichen Itzu Mayan Ruins on her 80th birthday!)
Happy Birthday Shirley .. Although we only met once…I feel a friendship …. When I met you… of course I met Diane’s smile..
How proud you must be of her… she brings so much goodness to the world…. So… If you ever decide to divulge the secrets of your anti aging appearance .. I am all there…. Until then I will muddle along … and hopefully look forward to our paths crossing again!!!!!! Happy … Happy .. Birthday!!!
Thank you for your kind words, Kim. I am, indeed, so proud of my talented, beautiful daughter who uses her gifts to bless so many who need a ray of sunshine in their lives. And like you, creates such beauty with flowers and imagination to bring happiness to so many.
Hi Diane,
What a nice tribute to your mom! I agree, when you hit 80, everyone should know. Thanks for sharing and Happy Birthday to your mom!
Leslie
Thank you, Leslie. Diane’s tribute touched me deeply and brought back fond memories of a life well lived.
Happy Birthday Shirley!!!!! WOW….cannot believe you could possibly be 80…you look absolutely fantastic!
What a wonderful tribute to your mom…miss you both terribly!
Thank you , Laurie. The photos Diane chose bring vivid memories of quality time spent with her. Her tribute humbles me. Miss you, too. Diane keeps me updated on you and your beautiful family. Thanks for the Christmas photo. It’s on my frig.
My dear Diane, I am blessed that my little girl, born in Tracy, MN would write this life tribute to her Mother for her 80th birthday. I am in awe of your words and thank you for your words. Your choice of pics hold rich memories.